Dear Exchange Author

 

I’ve been signing up for a bunch of different exchanges and I don't always have time/bandwidth to write a new letter so I decided I needed a master letter! One letter to rule all letters, if you will.

First of all, THANK YOU for writing something for me. I know creating something for someone else can be difficult and scary and I am so very appreciative you decided to take the leap. I am a creator who prefers more guidance rather than less so I've written the below assuming you are too. If not, please don't feel fenced in by this letter. I'm generally pretty easy to please and you can assume as long as something isn't on my DNW list, it's fair game!

DNW: food involved in sex, feeding/stuffing kink, scat, AUs other than canon divergence, ABO, vore, BIPOC characters only existing to further the stories of white characters, focus on male characters.

General Likes: Intense emotions. Unexpected vulnerability. Blurring the lines of platonic, romantic and sexual love. Characters being pushed past their limits or further than they thought they could go. Bisexual female characters, including references to previous or current relationships with men. Poly relationships. Forbidden relationships. Cheating. Angst. Hurt/comfort. Boundary pushing. Relationships with age and power gaps. Complicated gender feels. 

Smut Likes: Crying during sex. Dirty talk. Power imbalances. First times, either with each other or altogether. Noncon, dubcon and coercion. Incest and pseudo-incest. Ageplay. Mommy/Daddy kink. Characters realizing intense romantic feelings in the middle of sex.  Rough sex that turns unexpectedly tender. Trust. Topping from the bottom. Fuck or die. Fic that absolutely shocks me, which is very hard to do. 

Below the cut you'll find some of my favorite things about fandoms I frequently request! Don't worry if not all of these are relevant to the exchange we're paired in. They're just meant to be broad strokes. 

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